
Walking into the peaceful silent drawing room, sunlit with the promise of a new summer’s day, I cannot help but think back to the weeks and months of Downton filming. They occupied so much of our diary for so many years.
In contrast to this morning, the filming days were noisy and would already have been well under way by now. Cameramen and sound men, gaffers and grips, the 1st AD bringing order, to costume and set designers, script supervisor, various technicians, the location manager, props, best boy and all dressed in similar dark colours. Everyone would be focused on setting for the first scene before the cast arrived from unit base in pin curlers, holding the little A5 booklets of words.
It was all relentlessly busy before it was punctuated by a sudden call for silence. It was however a different sort of industrious silence as everyone held their breath, hoping their phone was off and there was no need to sneeze or cough.
This very drawing was so often just full of stuff, from trollies to dollies cables, back packs and monitors. The whole castle had a very different feeling to it, before at the end of the day still upside down and a bit dusty everyone was suddenly gone for the day. It seemed to me as if the Castle sighed deeply and settled down for the night.
Nostalgia can sometimes eddy forwards unbidden into our minds. However, dreaming about past times can be reassuring. Some might consider nostalgic thoughts as hopelessly unrealistic, as misplaced sentimentality which should not be entertained let alone admired. The original roots of the word, ‘nostalgia’ are Greek and the syllables are constructed from the concepts of homecoming and melancholy, a sense of loss.
In times of trouble, we all tend to long for the past, for our safe, rosy hued memories for the good old days, when times were more predictable, more courteous and better framed. Such longings can be triggered by music or plays, books or people but in all cases, suddenly these emotions flood through into the present. Of course Downton Abbey captures many of these emotions not just in transporting us via a film into the 1930’s but just the memories or watching the series in the times before Covid and before the current global anxieties.

My father-in-law with his mother
Far from just being weakly sentimental, nostalgia can be positive, improve our mood, make us feel a sense of community and feel better, in fact make us feel more meaningful. Equally allowing our mind to drift back to Sunday evenings sitting down together to watch Downton Abbey is positive, remembering a favourite scene gives busy whirling minds time out. A complete change from daily life allows each of us to reappraise stressful times and helps us all cope better.
Heritage such as Highclere is of course imbued with nostalgia – it is an endeavour to conserve buildings, landscapes and other artifacts of historical significance for past times. We are trying to connect heritage from past generations to now and to prepare for the future rather thus bridge builders of time. Downton Abbey is one version of living history but so too are Highclere’s weekends and tours which welcome visitors and focus on key previous events. The idea is to relate them to today with exhibitions, things to do, to explore and to entertain.

Catherine, Geordie’s grandmother on the right
Nostalgia is about exploring in time and place, you can explore with travel with reading with coming here and touching walls, walking down staircases and remembering.
The film trailer for the next Downton Abbey film is set in 1930. Curiously, in real life that particular decade was marked by a strong sense of nostalgia for the 1890’s when Queen Victoria still provided a beacon for continuity. Without doubt, the Victorian sense of order and culture had been totally upended by 1930.
Whether we all feel nostalgia for the beginning of Downton or are looking forward to the next film, it is a cosy reassuring feeling of past Sunday evenings at home, sitting with family and friends cast back in “a flood of remembrance for the past.”
Thank you, Lady Carnarvon as always for your beautiful thoughts and insight. We all wait impatiently for the next and sadly, last chapter of Downton.
Thank you for sharing your home with us and giving us countless moments of nostalgia, both up and down the stairs.
Lady Carnarvon,
Thank you for sharing another look at the longings of nostalgia. We do long for remembrances of things past that were happy and fun rather than memories left to stay in the past. Certainly Downton Abbey’s beginning through to the soon-to-be newest film will leave us content that the world used to have happy endings, even if through the lens of a camera! Hope you have a grand summer!
Martha
Well said Lady Carnarvon , a wonderful read..
Lovely the pictures of nostalgia and did you and lord Carnarvon have a wonderful weekend l lovely highcelere castle and Downton Abbey
We are so looking forward to visiting you in August with our pre-cruise extension with Viking river cruises. I have been busy rewatching Downton Abbey paying more attention to the beautiful setting this time around.
I think I need to rewatch it too!
Sigh.
Your comments ring so true and come at the right time. I find myself being nostalgic a-lot lately with all that is happening here in the US and around the globe. Your Monday morning message always educates me and puts me in a good frame of mind to deal with the stresses of modern life. Thank you for all you do and for sharing your talents in so many ways. Blessings to you and yours.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
Thank you so much for the reminiscing on Downton Abbey. I am a big fan of Downton and The Crawley Family, as well as all of the characters. My husband and I were blessed to visit Highclere three years ago on a trip to London. We were there on one of the special days with costumes, tea and picnic outside, and of course a beautiful tour of the Castle and the lovely grounds.
I hope to plan another trip soon. I would love to be there during the Christmas Season.
I watch the entire Downton series a few times a year and both movies. I am looking forward with millions of other fans to the upcoming 3rd and final movie.
Thank you for your time.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
You have described it perfectly – how we enjoy the nostalgia evoked so cleverly by Downton Abbey – the setting, costumes, & if course the wonderful Cast.
A brilliant story beautifully told by everyone involved – we all owe a massive debt of thanks to Sir Julian Fellowes for his remarkable work.
Thank You, Lord & Lady Carnarvon for letting our heads & hearts into your fabulous home, it wouldn’t be the same without Highclere,
Love Caroline xx
I wasn’t fortunate enough to be born during those lovely nostalgic times in the 20s and 30s. So, it’s a real treat to be able to experience them through the Downton Abbey series and Downton movies. It’s a beautiful way to travel through time and find yourself in that lovely, ever changing , nostalgic world.
Thank you
Beautiful and so needed! This was very comforting to me, thank you
Lady Carnarvon my husband and I have a beautiful sense of nostalgia remembering 2 trips to Highclere; one in 2023 at Christmastime listening to you speak. Yesterday, in our large church, our muscular ex-Navy pastor proclaimed how much a fan he is of Downton Abbey and that the day the movie premiers in theaters here in the US he will be in a movie theater. He used the Queen and Bates in his sermon. Looking forward is good for the soul as well.
Please do share the weekend to remember
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Lady Carnarvon,
I find myself periodically re-watching Downton Abbey as a way of not only enjoying the story lines but to briefly regain a sense of, as you write, more courteous times and greater civility. My mother frequently pointed out that, “good manners never go out of style.”
Cele Curtis
Tennessee, USA
I love what you say and I agree that nostalgia can often by like a warm blanket to rewatch a favourite film or series, to visit and spend time at a familiar place or to read again a well loved book. All these actions give reassurance and a warmth of the familiar especially in times of difficulty. Thank you for articulating it so well. Just reading it gave me a sense of real warmth. Thank you.
Dear Lady Carnarvon,
I thoroughly enjoyed your wonderful story and information about “Nostalgia”at Carnarvon Castle.
The photos of Lord Carnarvon’s late close relatives, especially the one of his late father as a young boy with his mother was both elegant and beautiful… reminiscing of a very special time gone by.
The photos of the Downton Abbey actors in their exquisite dresses and headdress are always a joy to see.
Thank you so much for this wonderful enlightening post.
With very best wishes.
Echoes of Laughter, Long Gone
…”Their voices, a melody the speaker longs to hear, are now just a memory. The speaker sees their bright smile in their mind, a fading light in the darkness. The wind whispers secrets through the trees, a mournful song. The speaker hears laughter on the wind, a bittersweet reminder of a shared time.”…
We love nostalgic memories of watching Downton Abbey at home, and also reflecting on our own childhoods. You have captured the essence of nostalgia at Highclere Castle. You have evoked that nostalgia in our own minds as we look forward to the new film, the new cast and old. We are always savoring the memories of Dame Maggie Smith quipping so quickly and effectively as Lady Violet Crawley, causing us all to burst out with laughter as we watched her eloquent mischief. Wonderful casting and scenes! Highclere brings the essence of joy and excitement and tender nostalgia to each episode. Thank you for opening your home again to all of us!
Thank you for your kind comments
Greetings from Italy Countess!
Nostalgia and even melancholy, I find are essentials, I personally do not relate them to sadness, precisely because I always find beauty and a kind of magic in the past! Downtown Abbey has been and will always be a part of me, without the past there could be no present and no future. I wish you and your family a good day!
Lovely thank you Janice
Thank you for such wonderful thoughts. Sunday with Downton indeed! Hooray for Dvds! Am looking forward to the film as well as my next tour of your great home.
As well, am a big fan of your books and blog Thank you so much.
Greg
So beautifully written. I’m so glad I signed up to be a Friend of Highclere Castle and can read such lovely blogs. I’m planning my first visit there in the Fall of 2026 and delight in the thought of walking the rooms with wonder and dignity of your beautiful home. Downton Abbey holds a special place in my heart as it helped me thru the loss of my late husband and I found joy and solace in watching it. Kudos to you Lady Carnarvon for guiding us through your thoughts and memories of a place you call home and love!!❤️
Thank you so much
Somewhere I heard that today is what in a few years they will call the good old times.
We are currently spending our holidays in the UK as we have done many times before. To remember these trips, the people we met, the views we saw and the gardens and grand houses we visited is nostalgia at its best for us.
I was not aware, until now, that there will be a third Downton Abbey movie. How wonderful. Downton has always been one of my favorites ever to grace TV and film.
If you have never seen the movie, “Midnight in Paris”, you must. The protagonist, who is an American writer, is visiting Paris and goes back in time to the era of Hemingway, Fitzgerald and T.S. Eliot. He waxes poetic about that era and wishes he could live then. While on his sojourn into the past, he meets a French woman from that time in history and together they go back to the Belle Epoque. She wants to live during the time of the Belle Epoque. They both yearn for, and feel nostalgic, about what they imagine to be more fascinating and romantic times in history. It’s a very entertaining and well written movie.
Thank you, Lord and Lady Carnarvon for allowing the Downton Abbey series and movies to be filmed in your lovely castle. Your gracious generosity gave millions of viewers a “mental vacation” where we could magically transport back into a world of grace and elegance.
Like those millions of viewers, Downton Abbey is my favorite show, and I watch the entire series and movies over and over again. The story and the beauty of your home and grounds will never grow old or faded.
My husband is used to me watching every morning and evening, so I thought he knew the story line. One morning he was passing by as I was watching Downton Abbey A New Era. He happened to catch the very end when the family were headed to the funeral. He was outraged when he realized the Dowager Countess had died (she was his favorite character.) I chuckled at his reaction; I thought he knew.
It was a big interruption in your household, but we are so grateful to you and Lord Carnarvon.
Nostalgia, I even love the sound of the word. It is a wonderful personal journey but also one that can be shared by many, as certainly proven by Downton Abbey.
I am reminded of the finale on New Year’s Eve when Isobel Crawley loves to forge ahead toasting the future while Violet wishes there was a choice to stay in the past. I think most of us become more like Violet as the years pass.
But attitude does help to make new wonderful memories, however small. We have such wonderful memories of all our visits to Highclere with a new one soon to come. We hope there is always another one to look forward to.
Hello from the Evergreen State in the US Pacific NW – Washington. I’ve been re-watching the entire Downton series in preparation for the 3rd moving coming out. It’s wonderful to revisit the ‘friends’ from Downton Abbey.
Oh, how chaotic film crews sound.!!
I must thank you for opening up your home, allowing us to see it
by means of Downtown Abbey,
I have been with them every step of the way.
With regard to the theme of your
comment, well there’s a good reason why period, historical,and true life works are endlessly in demand.
Chrissie Hughes
Lady Carnarvon,
I am feeling nostalgic already. And have not seen the film yet. We have so many memories of Downton Abbey. It gave us hope for the future during the hardship of the recession crisis and during the pandemic. A brilliantly done masterpiece that complimented every topic. Important even in today’s world. It is comforting to know we have videos that will last. But we miss looking forward to Sunday nights. Now we refuse to say goodbye. Downton will always be part of our lives. The same way Highclere will remain. Thank you for sharing your beautiful home.
Whenever I go on a Viking cruise I always watch episodes of Downton Abbey in our stateroom. Seeing Highclere on TV or on the screen is nostalgic of my visit to your estate in 2014. I long to revisit Highclere to relive that wonderful experience. I am excited for the 3rd Downton Abbey movie!
What a lovely, timely post for me. I’m re-watching that beloved series again for the umpteenth time. I have a feeling that series, the movies, and the generous sharing of your home will live on for many years to come.
I enjoy all your blogs. I love hearing of the history and I can’t wait to see your beautiful home in early July this year on a pre- trip prior to our Viking ocean cruise. I have just finished watching the entire Downton Abby series, including the movies and am more than ready to see it in the flesh! Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us as well as the photographs.! Love it!!
We look forward to welcoming you in July.
As I wake early to get my children off to school, I took the time to read your lovely blog. I am re watching Downton Abbey currently and I do love it, but sometimes it is painfully nostalgic as I am transported back to a time when women often died in child birth, so many men died at war and despite all that wealth things were more primitive. Without Downton I don’t think I would even be able to grasp the culture of that era and you dear Lady Carnarvon have contributed significantly to that by sharing your home and life there with us, so thank you.
Reading the comments above started me thinking about the times a century ago as reflected in the Downton series. Wouldn’t a new film about a young Violet Crawley, happily moving through her world with that vibrant personality, be wonderful for all of the fans? Sir Julian Fellows, consider the potential story lines.
I read your posts for this very reason. Always feel like we go back in time a little. Whether you’re talking of current activities or times from the past around Highclere, it’s my scape from the very fast pace of today.
Thank you
Ps will make the trek there one day
There is something even deeper than nostalgia! I have just returned to Australia from my 14th visit to England….why you may ask why would you go to the same country14 times? I don’t know….. I truly cannot explain it but when I’m there, I am home…goodness gracious why are you home? Some of your family are sixth generation Australians? Yes but I’m at home when I’m in England!
Lady Carnarvon,
You always have such lovely words to describe everything. I think you make the world a better place! We are great Downton Abbey fans. We have watched the entire series 6 times. And about to start again. How sad that the end is near with the last movie. I wish it would go on forever. We visited your home in 2023 and that was the most remarkable and wonderful experience. We regret that we did not get a chance to meet and visit with you. But reading your words always makes me feel like I may have met you.
Thank you for bringing a little bit of your world to mine!
Mimi Ragan
North Myrtle Beach, SC USA
Thank you for another wonderful morning read. Like you. I think Nostalgia is a perfect time to reflect on happy memories and share them with family and friends. We do it so often and smile about happy occasions with those who are now “angels at our table”.
I’m sure the bustle of the film crew was quite an upheaval, but it has resulted in the most fabulous television series Downton Abbey and latterly the movies. I have just watched the trailer for the movie to be released later this year. We here in New Zealand are waiting eagerly for tickets to go on sale.
Have a fabulous Highclere summer with the many events you run. Wishing the UK was a shorter distance away than a 23 hour flight, so we could visit you more often.
My dearest Lady Fiona,
Good night from Brazil,
Nostalgia= grek word .
SAUDADES = word in Portuguese.
Il n’avait pas dans l’autre langue,seulement dans la langue Portuguese.
Que signifie = nostalgia dans la langue anglaise…
TRÈS ROMANTIQUE WORD.
Merci mille fois for le magnifice WORDS.
YOUR BEAUTY HOME IS VERY ,VERY BEAUTIFUL.
MY GOODNESS !!!!!!!!
LOVELY WEEK FOR YOU.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
VILLA ALEMÃ
RIO CLARO-SP
BRAZIL
As I read your eloquent words I had a sense of longing and nostalgia wave over me. My memories of visiting and touring Highclere are a true highlight of my two years living in London. The day was gorgeous and the castle even more beautiful than my minds eye had built it up to be after watching Downton more times than I care to admit. I loved my visit and your post brought to mind that wonderful day spent at Highclere with family and friends.
What lovely memories for you.